Website Discussion Guidelines

This page explains what is allowed when discussing websites and research platforms in the r/HEM_NSFW community. The goal is to support helpful discussion while staying compliant with subreddit rules.

You may mention research sites when sharing your experiences or asking general questions. This includes naming platforms as part of your story or asking about their reliability.

Examples of allowed statements:

• Mentioning where you found an ad as part of describing your visit.
• Asking whether a particular site is still active or trustworthy.
• Sharing general observations about how a site works or common issues users encounter.

You can mention where you found an ad if it’s part of your story.

• “I found her ad on AdultSearch and decided to check it out.”

You can ask general questions about a site’s reliability, safety, or reputation.

• “Is AMPReviews still active?” or “Is AdultLook full of fake ads?”

You can share helpful insight about how a site works or what to watch for.

• “That site tends to reuse photos, so always double-check before contacting anyone.”

These types of comments are acceptable because they provide context and information without directing others to specific providers or services.

The following are not allowed:

• Posting direct links to any external sites, including both main platform pages and individual ads.
• Sharing contact information, phone numbers, or specific directions to locate a provider.
• Requesting or offering local leads or recommendations for providers.
• Encouraging others to contact or visit a specific provider.

No posting or linking to ads

• “Here’s her link on AdultSearch.”

No asking for or sharing contact info, numbers, or directions

• “Search this number on AdultLook.”

No requests for local leads or providers

• “Any good ones near San Jose?” or “Who’s the best girl on …?”

No encouraging others to contact or visit someone

• “She’s real, message her.”

Anything that looks like you’re helping someone connect with a provider counts as solicitation and will be removed under Rule 5.

You can talk about websites and how you use them for research. You cannot use comments to help others find or access services.

If you are unsure whether something is allowed, consider whether your comment would help someone locate or contact a provider. If the answer is yes, it should not be posted.

For a list of commonly used research platforms, see the Helpful Websites & Directories page.